tt night, i asked, "what are your dreams in life?"
"to lead a happy and simple life. to do whatever i like. to live life to the fullest."
"i don't want to feel sad for even a day."
i asked again, "are you really living life to e fullest if what you only experience is happiness?"
this conversation left me thinking: imagine a person who has always been happy in his life. he has never felt other emotions strongly before. how can he truly understand a person who is in misery or anger?
my answer to everything: for the sake of trying to understand others a little more, we should exchange a tiny bit of our happiness for e same experiences. bcuz even though i have given up on this tiny bit of happiness, what i get in return is a gift to provide others with mre happiness. n these accumulated happiness will be so many times mre than e initial happiness that i have provided.
"what if a tiny bit is not enough, but maybe more of ur happiness is needed to exchange? would u still be willing to make this exchange?"
i replied:
"it's ur decision."
"it's how willing u are."
"in any case, e happiness provided to others will also have sth in return for you - happiness."
"and of a higher grade/quality."
"so how willing u are is related to how much do u care for e rest n how strongly u wanna do sth for them."
Those were my thoughts,
my answers.
What about you?
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